ANGER
MANAGEMENT & TRUE CONFESSIONS
Do not let any
unwholesome talk come out of your mouths,
But only what is helpful
for building up others according to their needs,
That it may benefit
those who listen.
~ Ephesians 4:29
I’ll start right off with the
confession: I’ve been feeling a lot of
anger lately. Mostly it has to do with a
ridiculous series of events related to my work involving (in my view) a serious
injustice. Of particular significance
for this blog, my anger and lack of patience are spilling out of the workplace,
and making me angry and impatient about things relating to animals and the lack of things I see and hear
from the church relating to animals. How
can people continue to do X, I stomp about wondering, and why won’t the church
speak up about Y?
Now, my clients are excited that I
am angry at work because they want me to fight for them. But I worry about being, shall we say, too truthful about my views with the
wrong people, with unhelpful repercussions.
Similarly, when I think about how to convince the church of the
importance of engaging on the topics of animal suffering and how human
responsibility for that suffering impacts us theologically, I worry these days about
being a little too forthcoming; I forget that what seems utterly self-evident
to me now never occurred to me at all until just a few years ago. Unmanaged anger is almost never constructive,
and usually hurts us more than the object of our fury.